Just gonna go ahead and take this post apart to prove my point.nidefawl wrote:You never asked me why I demoted you ingame and not on IRC/Forums. I thought it was obvious that I wanted to see you more active Ingame.
When you didn't ask me why, I though you wouldn't really care about it. Apparently you thought it was not fair to demote you.
I always respected you and appreciated your help but never really cared about your opinion. (Since some happenings in the early days of my aether porting work)
I've always been there when you had coding questions. You should have nagged me the same way when you got demoted.
Anyways, the lack of native english speaking skills would make it impossible for me to win that argument.
So. You ask me why I never asked you about my demotion. Because I knew, it was obvious what it was, everybody on the staff team knew, asking you wouldn't help validate anything. The reason was irrational. No other way to put it.
Carrying on you tell me to nag you when I got demoted. Nagging in itself is irritating someone to the point where you get your way. It's manipulative and degrading. You shouldn't have to nag to see reasoning, it should be clear from the start. Before you jump on that, your own point earlier helps defend it. You don't care about my opinion. This makes it crystal clear what your stance is. You've said it right here, that you wouldn't care what I say. (making the whole act of nagging purely manipulative)
So right here, you've said:
1) You don't care.
2) You encourage manipulation as a way to get what you like.
Moving on, we come up to Cyn.
Cyn argued because she saw something wrong, and she wanted it right. When she'd (No offence intended, Cyn), nagged you into seeing her problem with Vepas, you just threw him to the ground with his staff status walking. Then not long later, the entire situations reversed and now Cyn is on the ground because you couldn't handled it and snapped, making do with whatever made people quiet, whatever you could just to make people quiet down, rather than solve the issue.
Then we come to here.
I'm going to have to bring this up because it's important, I apologize if you didn't want it said Vepas. It's known between several of us that the reason Vepas recently "Resigned" is because you didn't like him. Or more specifically, because you wouldn't miss him. This is outright slanderous. It's worse than my reason tenfold.
Resignation my ass. You didn't even give him a choice.
Seriously, you're quite simply a nasty and irrational man.